Approaching
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- Cold approach for beginners: your first weekHow to start cold approaching if you never have: a day-by-day first week, what to say, what to expect, and what to track so the second week is easier.
- How to end a conversation well, and leave a good impressionHow to end a conversation gracefully: when to wrap up, exit lines with or without a number, and what to do when you or she wants out.
- How to shoot your shot in personShooting your shot in person means walking up and making a move. How to pick the moment, what to say, read her reply, ask for a number, and take a no.
- How to approach a girl you like without being creepyHow to approach a girl you like without being creepy: what makes an approach feel off, when to go, exact lines to say, and how to leave a good impression.
- Openers that work, and why the line matters less than you thinkExact openers for direct, situational, and observational approaches, what to say in the next 30 seconds, and the delivery mistakes that sink a good line.
- How to tell if she's into the conversation, and when to leaveA checkpoint system for reading interest in person: what green, yellow, and red look like, how to test with an easy out, and the exact lines for leaving.
- How to start a conversation with a strangerExact lines for lines, cafes, transit, and events, a five-step sequence for the first minute, and the common mistakes that end conversations early.