People
Coaches today
- Esther Perel on desire and long relationshipsEsther Perel is a Belgian-born therapist known for Mating in Captivity, The State of Affairs and her podcast. Her main ideas, and what to try from them.
- Hamza Ahmed and self-improvement for young menHamza Ahmed is a UK-born YouTuber with about 2.2 million subscribers who covers fitness, discipline, reading and dating. What he makes and how.
- Logan Ury and How to Not Die AloneLogan Ury is a behavioral scientist and Hinge's director of relationship science. Her 2021 book, her three dating patterns, and ideas you can test.
- Marni Kinrys and The Wing Girl MethodMarni Kinrys is a dating coach who advises men from a woman's side and co-hosts a podcast on attraction. What she teaches and where to find it.
- Mark Manson's Models and the honest approachBefore The Subtle Art, Mark Manson wrote Models, a dating book built on non-neediness and honesty. What it teaches and how to put it into practice.
- Nick Kho (Papa) and the business side of pickupNick Kho, known as Papa, co-founded Real Social Dynamics. A look at how the bootcamp business worked, his role in The Game, and what to copy.
- Corey Wayne and How to Be a 3% ManCorey Wayne's advice is simple: keep approaches short, ask for the date, and use the phone to set plans. Here's what he teaches and how to try it.
- Todd Valentine and Todd V DatingTodd Valentine (Todd V Dating) is a former RSD instructor known for The System and daygame coaching. His methods, in his own words, and how to try them.
- Charisma on Command: social skills from YouTubeCharisma on Command passed 10 million YouTube subscribers teaching charisma as a skill. The book's formula, the Clinton eye-contact video, and drills.
- Kezia Noble: a woman coaching menKezia Noble has coached men on dating since 2006, wrote The Noble Art of Seducing Women, and runs a YouTube channel. What she teaches.
- Hayley Quinn's dating adviceHayley Quinn is a London dating coach, TEDx speaker, and author who once ghostwrote for pickup artists. Her approach to real-life dating.
- Simple Pickup: from prank videos to a dating companySimple Pickup was a 2011 YouTube channel where three men asked women for phone numbers on camera. Here are the numbers, the approach, and what Kong did next.
- Matthew Hussey and what women are told about datingMatthew Hussey coaches women on dating. His books, his YouTube channel, and the specific advice he's given, useful if you want to know how the other side is advised.