Approaching
Nights out
- How to dance at a club without feeling awkwardHow to dance at a club as a guy: a few basic moves, the spotlight effect, joining a group, asking someone to dance, and what to do when the answer is no.
- How to talk to someone at a weddingHow to meet someone at a wedding: openers from shared context, the cocktail hour and dance floor, talking to a bridesmaid, and swapping numbers politely.
- How to meet people at a bar when you don't drinkHow to talk to girls at a bar when you don't drink: what to order, what to say if asked, how to bring energy sober, and better places to meet.
- Night game: a step-by-step plan for bars and clubsA practical night game plan: when to arrive, how to open in a loud room, lines to try, time limits for each set, and how to close with a number.
- How to approach a group: a step-by-step routineA practical routine for approaching someone who's with friends: how to open the group, split your attention, give your reason, and close, with exact lines.
- How to approach someone at a partyA step-by-step plan for parties: when to approach, exact lines, how to enter a group, how long to stay, and how to leave a conversation well.
- Approaching at concerts and festivalsWhere and when to talk to people at live music events, exact lines for loud places, and how to turn a chat into a plan before the crowd swallows her.
- How to approach in a clubA practical plan for approaching in a loud club: the three phases, what to say over the music, time limits, group rules, and mistakes with fixes.
