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Texting
- Double texting: when it's fine and when to stopIs double texting bad? It depends on why you're sending it. When a second message is fine, when one follow-up is okay, and when silence is the answer.
- How to start a conversation with a girl over textHow to start a conversation with a girl over text: first messages after meeting, after weeks of silence, or with someone from class or work. Exact lines.
- What to text after a first date (and when to send it)What to text after a first date: when to send it, exact messages for a date that went well, felt unsure, or wasn't a match, and how to set the second date.
- Dry texter or not interested? How to tellDry texter or not interested? Side-by-side signals, what to send instead, a simple in-person test, and when to stop texting and move on.
- Talking stage questions to ask a girlThirty-five talking stage questions to ask a girl, grouped from easy openers to date setups, plus how to keep it from feeling like an interview.
- How to text a girl without being boringHow to text a girl without being boring or interviewing her: statements, callbacks, small stories, photos, voice notes, pacing, and turning it into a plan.
- Matches but no dates: getting from the app to a meetupLots of matches and no dates? Here's why app chats die, a simple message path from opener to plan, and exact lines for asking a girl out on Hinge or Tinder.
- What to text a girl after getting her number: exact textsWhat to text a girl after getting her number: the first text, how to text a girl you just met, a plan within 5 messages, and what to send if she goes quiet.